Quick Answers

Things you have always wanted to ask a sex worker

Here are some quick answers to questions asked. Typing in a hurry so forgive my spellings..

1. Do you believe in God? – Believer

Yes, I do. Gone are the days when I used to think it was cool to say I don’t believe in God. Yet my belief in God is not of the God as Judge way, but rather of the God Has A Purpose For You way. I don’t believe its upon human beings to decide what God’s purpose for you is. I am not saying God’s purpose for me is to be in this work that I am yet to ascertain. But if it is, I wouldn’t be surprised; after all, He is God, and he works mysteriously.

2. Do you think you have made about 500,000 ksh since you started doing this business? Estimate if you don’t know—Bob

Ha! I never thought of this but now that you bring it up I have done some quick maths surely earned much more than Ksh. 500,000. I might  have hit a million. So where is the money you ask? I have been in this three years plus. The money does not flow continuously, and there are expenses and all. Look at anyone earning a salary of Ksh.15,000 a month…. I will come back to this later.

3. If you were to move to another Country and find someone you love and they love you back, Would you ever tell them you used to be a prostitute, even if you are sure they will never find out? – Dzeko

Yes, I would tell. I can never be sure they wouldn’t find out. Even now, I am never sure that my family will never find out. There can always be a slip. If I am to live with man forever, I don’t want to live being too careful with what I say or do to avoid the truth slipping out. And I don’t trust myself not to say or do something that will give me away. But hey, there are many men who love prostitutes, and their motivation varies.

4. Have you ever been photographed naked by a client? – Moto

Yes, quite a number of clients get a kick out of it. I have no problem as long as they don’t include my face. Nowadays there are rumours spreading all over that no hotel is safe and that crooked staff working with others install hidden cameras to record the ‘action’ for sale on the internet, so the first thing to do when I get into a room is to check for cameras the way the spies check for bugs in movies.

5.Hi Sue,  Love your blog. If you were given another chance at life, would you do things differently? Please be honest. – Jamaa wa Mtaa

I would do something differently, but not everything. If you are asking whether I would have chosen this work, the answer is yes, but maybe not work exactly the way I do. And perhaps avoid some messy things I have done while on the street.

6. Hey Sue, Would you fuck a 17-year-old guy if he was paying well and you were 100% sure it’s not a setup or anything like that? – Anon11

Ha! The question itself is a set-up. No, I wouldn’t. There is no way I would believe its not a set up. And well, a 17-year-old would be problematic in so many ways—emotional and physical.

Later.


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