Ask Sue

July 2012 Questions Answered

1. Hi Sue, how comes kenyan women find the courage to go to the streets yet there are very few with enough courage to join sites connecting them with men that pay for the service or maybe there is another arrangement for them to make cash? – doug

My first concern would be privacy. The chances of a family member or friend getting me on Street are lower than of them finding me on an escort site, with a photo of me displaying my whatnot so as to win customers. Then again if we met on the Street the matter would end there. I mean if he is out there looking for a prostitute he would have no moral right to judge me for being one.

I would never know the identity of the people viewing me on an escort site and well how can I duck and hide like it happens on the streets at times ? So my amorous cousin or neighbor could see me on a site and start talking behind my back. And if asked “What were you doing visiting an escort site?” He will gladly answer “Actually I didn’t visit the site, some pervert tagged me on Facebook.” Nowadays that is enough explanation.

2. Are there prostitutes who have undergone female genital mutilation and if so how do they cope on the streets since they cant enjoy sex fully? – Big Fan Mariam

Yes there are. Not that I have seen them naked but they talk about it without regrets , and keep repeating as if in pride, as if it makes them tougher women . As to how they cope, well the main purpose of this business is to sexually please a man and not oneself, and earn money while at it. So many times I have pleasured men without feeling a thing myself. Yet there are men whose pleasure is not complete unless the girl seems to be enjoying herself. For those a girl can always fake or act in other ways that compensates her FGM short coming.

On the other hand it’s a plus if you mix business with pleasure; enjoy sex while still making men ecstatic and getting paid for it. But if one cant for reasons beyond their present control, say FGM or boredom, one doesn’t get depressed; she just reminds herself why they are on the street in the first place: money. Okay who is the god? Money is. What is money? Money is the god. My orgasm is not.

3. Can a white girl make it on the streets of Nairobi? And can you make it in Europe? – Johnnie Sure, a white girl can make it. Never mind the roughness here. Every street girl anywhere in the world has an in built system to handle that. Haven’t you seen it in movies and James Hadley Chase novels? Would she get clients? Definitely yes. Since my college days and up to now I hear men in Nairobi bad mouth white women .Saying all manner of things about their bodies, sex prowess or lack of it and so forth. Much of it is hot air. Few local men would turn down a white P. One explanation why men pay for sex is variety. A man will pick a white girl not for any other reason but discover how it is with such. Is it like in the movies? And of course sleeping with a white girl will make men acquire bragging rights. “I did it with a white woman and let me tell you…..” . Interestingly for reasons unbeknown to me the number of white prostitutes in Nairobi is increasing. White will soon be the new Ethiopia.

For the same reasons above I am sure to make it in Europe. The main draw back may be the laws and generally the system there which I may take time to understand but eventually I would hack it. That said I believe it’s easier for a white girl to make it on the streets of Nairobi, than for a black girl to succeed on the Avenues of Luxembourg. Or is it?

4. What will you name your child, if you ever get one? – Nenda

Not sure. If a boy definitely not John, probably Tonka Zan, Brutus (Popeye) or something of the sort. If a girl I would come up with my own name whose meaning I would assign. I d prefer a name made only
of consonants.

5. Which of the present presidential candidates will you vote for? – J K

Given a choice none. They lack the glow despite their cash. But I have no choice and I got to vote. As for who, the less said the better.

6.Why don’t you reply to email? – Marto

I try to. Or used to. Of late I have been away from email for a while but I am back and digging in to reply to everyone who has dropped me a note .Considering the pile it may take a while though.

7. Do you think men love sex more than money? Why ay for it when they can get it free of charge from their wives? – Eric

No I think men love cash more. Several men have disrupted a session just because they had to rush somewhere to ‘fix a deal ‘. I believe for both men and women sex is a means not an end to anything. Money and power give more pleasure to human beings than sex, or so I think. Paying for sex is a cog in the wider money making scheme. At times sex relaxes men and helps them focus on their goals. Would a man choose 20 million shillings or doing it with Beyonce? I think the former. I would choose the former too if its Jay Z in the picture.

Answers – 23rd February , 2011

1. Which type of hairstyle do you prefer? – Anon

I keep changing my hairstyle, but I prefer something simple like a blow dry and letting the hair lose. At one time when I was more ‘conscious’ I had shaved. It was my equivalent of dreadlocks.. Its something I will do again.

2. Where does one get commercial sex dates for young less used women unlikely to be sick of HIV? – Mod

Well that’s a long shot. Even if you may have heard that girls in some places are less ‘used’ you can’t generalize. Of course one can rightfully argue a girl at SJ is likely to be more ‘used’ but don’t people get HIV on the day they break their virginity? ‘Used’ sounds bad. Used?

3. Am 31 I love checking out with prostitutes because I don’t think home ladies could really satisfy me, but do you think I could get the satisfaction I need apart from a home girl? -Teejay

I am not sure I get the last part of your question. Yes, on the street and with money, you will get satisfaction, but then money can give you false illusions even of sex.

4. I have read part of the ebook. Is it you or it’s a created story regarding real life in Nairobi? Then if it’s true, most of us must have been your regular customers and would have pleasure in meeting you and retesting again.- Joe

Ha.. Not created. You think you have been my customer? And you want a replay to ‘retest’? That made me laugh. I am still at the same place where you think you found me.

5. Sue, I think you have a great writing talent. I know you know this by now. However, one can tell that you are sad and withering from within. I don’t know you, but your writing says it somewhat. Whereas you wanted to build a brand, etc., possibly entertain people, become a celeb… then what? What next? The world is getting sicker and crazier… You know this… Seek God, my dear sister… before it’s too late… time is very short… I write this to exhort and encourage you before it’s too late… at least you won’t say you never heard this. Seek God; he will restore you…even the wounds that you have deep down because of your dad…the anger and temper that you experience…he can sort it out…the temper thing you have deep within is directly connected to the soul ties you have. Anyways, be encouraged. This is not meant to judge or condemn you. Don’t try to please men… Man will always turn you down… God will never…he has the stability you seek. – Loxx

True I set out to build a brand, but my theoretical plans and reality turned out to be different . And no I was not seeking fame and celebrity. Those come and go . Fame might with shame for a person like me. I was low at some point, perhaps like everyone occasionally does. But now my spirits are high. As for God I have built a personal relationship with Him. I think I know what He wants with me.

6. Has it ever crossed your mind that one day your cover might be blown off and your true identity revealed? Shall you ever have the courage to face your family thereafter—Pussy Lover?

Like I have said before, its always a possibility. If it ever happens I will still face family, albeit head down. But I can’t run away.

7. Hi, always wondered, sex is for pleasure so how do you feel the ecstacy from it? You are in insight. thank you – Kim

Well there is still a part of sex which is physical, and once in a while I will respond to it. And then I will occasionally meet a man I like and who gets me there.

8. How does your vagina feel after your work is it painful or does it seem hollow after sleeping with those men?

I feel no pain or hollow at all. Sometimes I feel a little dirty, but I put hygiene first, and make sure even after a long long night I feel fresh. I will never have any negative thoughts towards my vagina.

9. Hey Sue, Honestly, are you one of those mamas who start complaining “Maliza haraka, that’s enough now. Hujamwaga? Unakaa sana!”? Damn, that is annoying! – Gates

And are you one of those men who drink some brand of liquor and chew green herbs which make you want to go and on forever while its obvious even your senses are drunk? Anyway kidding. Pay me well and I won’t complain. Don’t expect unlimited time for Ksh.200 no matter the neighborhood we are conducting the business in.

10. Do you take facials? – Bob

Haha..yap.

11. Hello Sue. Thanks for the stimulating and interesting reads. Are Sue Kahumbura your real names?

Partially yes.

12. Hey just wanna ask how it feels when several men sleep with you, of course I don’t think the sex is great coz there is no love or any emotions attached to it…so do you have great sex at times? Can you be in the trade of selling P and still maintain a relationship with a man? – Dre

Yes there are moments when the sex is great. Not all men who come to prostitutes are heartless and loveless. some treat girls with tender care and some odd version of love. Some even treat some previously married girls here better than their former husbands …

As being in he trade and still maintain a relationship , it’s possible. Quite a number of girls do it, but I doubt the quality of such men. Quality in terms of what really defines a man, or what a man should be.

13. Hi Sue, I meet a Kenyan lady and became friends with her, because I was better of financially I decided to help her out in any way I could and over a period of about 9 months I have given her $1500 worth of gifts including some cash but she is often rude to me and rarely says thank you to me.

Normally after I have given her something she said she needed she immediatly asks me for something else. I am a white Australian and are not sure if this is normal behavior for Kenyan women. We are not lovers and have never had sex just friends.

Should I end the friendship? As she never gives me anything in return not even a thank you.

Interesting. Is that the normal behavior of Kenyan girls? It can’t be normal but its not surprising. There were days my off the Street friends who had white boyfriends seemed confused, adoring and give their all to the whites.

Anyway its obvious you are not the only man in her life. There must be others who certainly are providing much more than you. You are for the short term, and to take care of coffee expenses. Yet as much as I partially admire her for not sucking up to you like some would do, I also think she is a bit tactless whatever her goals are. There are many in Kenya who would treat you better.

Just open your eyes and channel your cash where you get returns.

Answers – 1st February, 2011

1. So, how much do you charge to have sex? e.g have sex? give a blowjob?? and how big are your boobs? can you like google boobs images and (turn the safe search off) find the ones that are close to yours and post them on here? lets see your level of sexiness, please? – Rahaq

Like I said before, the charges depend on my impression of the man. Its an instinct thing. For instance, I always find myself overcharging men who treat me well. Maybe it’s taking advantage, or assuming they
will understand dynamics of price and risk. Self-assured men have no much fuss. You mention a figure and they go with it. I don’t even need to mention a price to some; they simply know how to treat a girl well and will pay accordingly.

2. Hey sue,we huishi mtaa gani…….?n hw old r u? – Adi

I am still in Pangani. In my late twenties now.

3. What will drive you to have sex witha client witout protection,en witout been forced? – Gidi

Folly, greed or the heat of the moment. But folly folly it is.

4. Anonymous I was wondering if you had any words of advice for a woman starting out as a prostitute.

No particular words of advice. You will learn on the job, and adapt . The Street will advice you. You can never be prepared enough for what you encounter.

5. You have declined on answering on how to satisfy a woman because you are only an authority on how to satisfy a man! Before you indulged on your current ‘profession, did you ever get sexually satisfied ie before you set your feelings aside to manage those of your clients. – Kwekwe

I have mentioned some few things which satisfied me in my cheeky eBook – A Few Things I Know About Sex. Yet its not a must they apply to all women. Yes I was satisfied, but actually some of my best sex I have enjoyed has been with some of my older clients.

6. So in short we will never know who you are since you won’t post a pic and can’t agree for a hook up. – Anto

Yes you might never know who I am, unless you meet me. And eh I wont post a picture. I don’t want to go public in such a manner It won’t be of any value to me.

7. Thoroughly enjoying your writing and you somehow know how to make a man feel better. My questions are: Have you made a grown man cry during the act because of the intensity? Do you enjoy foreplay before engaging in the act? Would you consider having raw sex with me after a VCT visit? – Rotten Apple

Mmmm…men do all manner of things due to the intensity…Well I would not exactly call it crying but something quite close.

Yes I enjoy foreplay because it makes the ride easier for me.

Ha ! raw sex after VCT? I don’t think so. Would you agree to raw sex me? even after Vct? I doubt.

8. You are so smart, dont you regret wasting your parents money to go to college and then not do anything with that degree? – Mario

I hesitate to call myself smart. Some things have done show otherwise. That said I wouldn’t say I wasted my parent’s money. I find myself using so much of my education. And comparing myself to my colleagues who have say five years of schooling I think I am happier. And who is it that said education is learning to turn stone to bread?

9. Hey im 16, would you ever do me if i came on the streets? You don’t do under 18 but how would you know im under 18? – Jim

Jim if I knew you are 16, I wouldn’t touch you with a ten foot pole. I think I would know even if you have a big physique, your voice broken , you know a man boy. But the age would be there in the way you talk and carry yourself. And truth be told very few men under 27 make really good clients. But of course there are some few wonderful.

10. Do you suck dick? If so have you ever had cum in your mouth? – Anonymous

Yes to both. Do I love it? Again it depends on the man, shape and accompanying words.

11. Would you ever like to go to the U.S? Do you or have you ever applied for the green card lottery? – Myself

I would like to go to the US to visit but not live there permanently. Thus I have never applied for a green card. I feel Kenya is the best country to live in if you have the resources for comfort and pursue of dreams. Resources I am sure I can get here.

12. You know what, this is very wierd..you posted something about “Starbucks was $2″…why in the world would you be using dollars? seems to me like you are either in the US or have been to the
U.S? whats the deal here/??#just curious & surprised# – Lil Jimmy

No I am in Kenya and have not been to the US. But look when the activists are pushing such ideas they use the $. Bet its for international comparison… And haven’t you heard how people here keep going on and on about living on less than a dollar in a day?

13. Do you watch WWE? whos your favorite wrestler? mine is Cm Punk & R truth – Eric

Haha such penis actions are not my favorite. Long time I used to like some guy who unfortunately I have forgotten the name. Nowadays I hear John Cena, but I wouldn’t say he is my favorite. I have none.

14. Hi Sue,i have a question. A few months ago I got drunk and passed by KStreet and ended up picking a lady on my way home, I have never done that before. We went to a place called forest lodge which she told me is the most popular place for those kinds of things. I told her I did not want to have sex all I wanted was to see her naked and maybe touch her pussy a bit. So she got undressed and we started anyway one thing led to another and before I knew it we were having unprotected sex I even came in her. Is this normal? Do the ladies on on K street do this? I really regret it I have even quit drinking. I got tested and im okay thank God. But please tell me why she would agree to this? The sex however was very good. – Stupid

As unfortunate as this is, its also funny. The Ad says you should always have a pack of Trust in your pocket because you never know when the may strike. I can’t speak for the girl. Different girls have different motivations. In the times I have had unprotected sex I was caught up in the moment and regrted it. Maybe it was the same with the girl. Or maybe she had nothing to lose. Are you sure you are okay?

15. Would you fuck someone in a forest or tunnel and where do you get those sleeping pills? – Gd boy

If the incentive is good. Some girls sell the pills, and there are some men who come selling. They can also be bought from chemists, but I have never done that.

16. Sue, do you have any clients who want you to dominate them? Tie up, sit on their face, ruin their orgasms etc? Have you ever done any of these things, and if so, did you enjoy it? – Jimmy

Yes there are some men who want to be dominated. Some even carry the tools of domination. I don’t love or hate it.. I just do it. There is so much acting in the domination acts. At times its fun, at times its not.

17. Beside having sex for commercial purposes. do you practice sex just for fun. or do you have your own bfriend – Karwamba

At the moment there is a very thin line between sex for fun and business. Haha I have no boyfriend…My clients are my boyfriends.

18. Dear Sue,

You are a very good writer so may I suggest something to you? Have you thought of writing a crime novel set on the streets of? The main characters could be a street prostitute (who you could model on yourself and your friends) and a high up policeman who is a regular customer of the girl. Together they can fight crime. With your experience you will be able to paint a vivid picture of street life ( and spice the novel up with some sexy bits) and it could be a way in which you can comment on social problems like child prostitution, violence against women or government corruption. I am sure there is a market for this kind of fiction and if the first book goes well there could be a series of books to follow.

Just an idea – its yours for free!

Kindest Regards

Mostyn

Wow! I have never thought of fiction. But that’s quite an idea. And maybe with fiction I can offer more of the Street than with facts. Again I have heard it said never let facts get into the way of truth?

19. What is your extent as far as handling a female client is concerned.? – Giddie

I don’t exactly get your question. I have had very few female clients and they are easier to please.

20. Can you decribe your looks?

Very very very very pretty. Kidding. You have to see me to know.

21. What girls like you do when they have a period? Have you ever fucked client when having period? – Mr. Fuckhead

I take time off when having periods. Yes I have slept with men during the periods but it was never good for the man or me.

21. Do you consider yourself dysfunctional – Ombitho

Not at all. I thought about it hard and decided I am not.

22. Hi Sue, do you give sex classes? I am abit of a prude and looking for ways to spice up my relationship. – Miss Experimental

Mmmm I won’t say I give sex lessons. Shared some of my anecdotes in my ebook, but then drop me an email and we could talk.

23. What is the best sex position by a woman for a man to get the quickest ejaculation? – Kwekwe

I am not sure of the best, but with me men last shortest when I squat on top with my legs together.

24. Have you been to Nigeria? Think you should it would give you an exotic perspective,really

No, I have never been to Nigeria, but have heard a Nigerian client who treated me badly. Anyway that’s one of the countries I plan to visit when I have time and resources.

25. Just wondering if YOU ever fantasize while in the “act”, so to speak and, if yes, who do you fantasize about?

Haha once in a while I will find myself fantasizing. I think of one or two clients. But nowadays I think of some men I have only met through the blog but not physically

26. Whats your HIV status? – Downlow

As of 15th January 2011 I was HIV negative.

Answers – 27th September, 2011

( Please note questions appear as they were asked. I have not made any spelling or grammatical corrections. If you wanted a private answer I will drop you an email soonest possible. Thanks)

1. In this age of tech savvy,do you ever worry about a client setting a hidden camera or using even a laptop to capture your photo and expose you? – jdog
   Yes I worry about it especially when a man takes me to his house or in a pre booked hotel room. But then if I become eccentric about my fears I will not sleep with any man. After all I have heard there are watches, buttons and pens with cameras.
2. What does your diet consist of before hitting the street every nyt? if u were given a chance to bed someone great on the planet,who would it be and why? dream destination? – Reinharditto
   I don’t have a particular Street diet. As long as I am full I am okay. I love chicken, and will purchase it when possible. But basically I could eat anything.
   Mmm Someone great I would like to bed? Can’t think of one. But I had a thing for Manco, that character in the classic western movie For A Few Dollars More. ( I think its Clint Eastwood) . Dream destination ? Antarctica .
3. Hey,can you post a pic of your body so we can see how it looks like? dont include your face cuz we know you try to protect it and we dont wanna see your identity, just you body i.e tits &ass – TyreseHa Tyrese. For personal reasons I will not do that. If we meet you will see how I look in all those places.
4. Is this all a deep cover anthropological experiment to feed your intellect and interest in psychology? Your immediate response may be no, but perhaps you needed something intense to feed your need to write about your observations and interest in humanity. I wonder if prostitution isn’t really what you do. Observing is..
   Huh Rupert. I wish it were, I really wish it were. On the other hand I have to admit it is interesting to observe the behaviour of men and girls in the context of our trade. And writing it down is satsyfying, but its not the reason I am in this business. A different motivation is needed, and not of the intellectual kind. The observing comes with the work. Every girl here has almost similiar stories, only that I write and share mine.

5.U seem lyk a lady who can make a man scream at the top of his voice n take him closest to heaven right sue? – LexWow! I think so when in the right mood.

6.On the question of having baby, what traits will you be looking for? – Tony
Tony I answered this before. Just look at previous answers.

7. How far are you willing to go for a client? For instance do you do anal? – The Solicitor
   As far as I am willing, and I am comfortable in. I wouldn’t do anything just to please my clients if it makes me feel terrible. But truth be told there are a number of times I have done things with clients though I didn’t enjoy them fully. Some of it out of curiosity, stupidity or greed.
8. Just one more question about anal sex, you have talked about it and you have also had anal sex. Is there pleasure for a chic when it comes to anal sex? kindly explain if you don’t mind, Coz I think the pleasure is all for the man, and when answering this think of it not in terms of the money you would get from having anal sex but for example if you had a boyfriend and you were out enjoying yourself sexually you would ask him to fuck you in the ass for pleasure or it would be to please him?Ha, why the obsession with anal sex? Well anal sex is a little complex for me. I never did it for money per se. I wouldn’t exactly say whether I would ask my boyfriend to do it or not. Its a very personal and particular act. It will depend on how we relate among other things. I may not be able to answer you fully.

9.I’ve heard rumours that there are shemale / transexual prostitutes in Nairobi. Havr you heard of them or come across any? – MikeYes I have heard of them, but I have not met one proper. I remember a year ago going with another girl to K1, where she pointed at a girl who was a formerly a man. Unfortunately we left before I could talk to her, something I would love to.

10.Sue, how were u treatin juniors who came to u durin their night out, wallets full of brown mullar bt had no game{…u knw wat i mean}. – Samir
Well, if you mean under 18 years I wouldn’t sleep with them. Rather I’d flatter with them a little and end it there. If you mean juniors like college and university students, I wouldn’t show them they have no game. Just fool them around and pocket their cash.

11. Hi sue, wht’s ur take on junior clients. Can u take ur bizna further miles 2 nax – Kichaa
    See above . I wouldn’t sleep with under 18 years. It has a lot to do with some self respect you know. Yeah I know how ‘self respect’ sounds when coming from me, but yes I still have some . Sure sure I can visit Nakuru when time and opportunity allows.
12. Pole about your loss, never a pleasant thing to go through. Anyway though you may have developed a mental block to sexual stimulation on your part, is there any client who you felt really took you places and you enjoyed the sex, and is there the one who you would hope is a repeat client (cash paid notwithstanding)? – Mguys
    Yes there have been such clients, but it largely depends on how I feel about them. Some men will treat a girl right, and if they are good in bed I enjoy. But then again I have to keep focused and not get carried away by the good sex if its not translating to non sexual benefits.

13.What happened when you had been arrested after the guy you were with passed out? you left us hanging there! – Ndururu
I was allowed to go when the man regained his life. Just read the last part of that episode.

14. Hey Sue,i want to know whether after college have u ever worked in the profession u studied i.eB.A in arts, economics? – ClydeNot exactly. I did a month as a cyber cafe attendant. But hey I think I apply some of my education here. You know the way they say education is learning to turn stone to bread…sort of.
15. Do all black guys have big dicks? – Alisa
    No. Of course not. Wonder where you got the idea. Some are on the small side.
16. Hav u ever bin double penetrated? – Chapa Ilale
    No.

17.. between circumcised and uncircumcised dingos, which u prefer? – poppy
To me they are all the same. They all wear condoms.

18. Have you ever had an experience where during sex the cd raptured bt u kept goin,not because your client was too strong to handle but because you couldnt let go the switness of the intimacy.en you just wanted to gush en let him feel your cum flow – Gidi
    No. That would be stupid.

19.Out of curiosity,have u ever filled your mouth with male cum?
No.

20. Are u good in dancing?maybe pole dancing?-
    Sure, I can dance pretty well.

21…do you do girls as well?and how much do they pay? – SpongebobI haven’t had many female clients. But they enjoy.

22.Do u give contacts to your clients,may be if they feel u were good and need u again? – Anto
I give my contacts randonly. Somehow I don’t like doing it.

23. Hello sue, me and my two cousins are coming from North Carolina to Nairobi in December, we wanna have the best time of our lives i.e go meet sexy girls like you, and maybe offer us some sexy services….would you prefer we come to you and 2 of ur friends or?? what about sabina joy? what is it all about(all details please)..T HA N K Y O U. and can u post a pic of just ur body, like just ur titties and pussy, but dont put ur face or ur fingers cuz someone could try 2 find out who u are..Thx sexy!!!
    Like I said no pictures for now. You sound like a shy, unsure guy. You come explore and we will see about that.
24. Su do you love football(soccer)? whats your favorite team and who did you go for in the World Cup? Who is your favorite player and who do you think is the best player in the world?? kindly answer -Didier
    I don’t love soccer But I read the newspapers to see what is going on in the sports pages. I love tennis, which I used to play, and athletics. Thus I have no favorite football player. That said I love the attitude of the coach Jose Mourhino. There is something admirable about that man.
25. How long do you have sex with a men before its over? Do you spend your whole night with them in bed and then go home in the Morning? – DennyIt depends on the man, what we have agreed on the basis of what he is offering. Depending on the time of the night and the situation on the Street, the ideal situation would be spend an hour with a man and then go back to the Street, but the ideal rarely happens.
26. About how much do you earn a day? a week? a month? dont estimate unless u have to – Eric
    There is no standard amount. In a bad day I don’t earn anything. In an average day I will earn a k. In a great day 3-4k. So in a bad month I make between 12-15 k. In the best of months about 30k. Sometimes if I am quite lucky I can make 40k. But on average here is 17-18k or so…. Well I have to estimate because there are no set fees, and the costs can be as high as 8k…. To give you an idea sometimes I am late in paying my rent, while at others I pay a month in advance…And ha maybe its true what some clients say “Money from prostitution is cursed”. I don’t do much with it, and my savings are on the lower end.

Answers – 14th September, 2011

( Please note questions appear as they were asked. I have not made any spelling or grammatical corrections. If you wanted a private answer I will drop you an email soonest possible. Thanks)

1.Sue, do you do anal, and whats the craziest thing a man has ever done. Lastly any female clients – Bokande
Yes, I might do it depending on the man. I never used to do it at all, but times have changed.Well I don’t know what to pick as the craziest but things to do with men toys are a little on the crazy side. I have had few female clients.

2. How much does it cost to watch you fondle – Luth
   As much as the real thing.
3. How would i get a huk up? – 9h4nt0m
   Try your luck on the Street, or drop me an email.

4.Would you service a client if he wants anal? – Jirani
See the first question

5.You have talked of having a baby at some point would you mind having one with me ? – Tony
I am not sure because I don’t know you, and the traits you posses.

6.y do u write this thing,i mean having a blog?at the bak of ma mind i think that u wanna quit standing on streets or do you wanna make all those girls thinking of being street girls not to think of being 1? – Scaloni
I started writing because I wanted to ‘build a brand’. I am not sure of that anymore, but I feel good writing. I do not intend to encourage or discourage anyone from coming to the Street. I have no moral right to do so, and then that’s is a very personal decision.

7. Have you ever stripped in the club?
   I have never stripped in public, but in private I have. Stripping in public is not something I would want to do.

8..do you walk half or fully naked to get clients?
Yes, sometimes I walk half naked to tempt men to become clients. But of course there are times I am fully dressed.

9….that money you get from yo work,do u do bisna with it,save or u use it carelessly?
..I don’t save much. I mostly consume, though I am starting to seriously think about some sort of investment.

10…I admire your confidence and notice you have the swag to match your attitude. You once mentioned in a blog about the right guy you may want his seed. Who is this man? Please do not be ‘Stingy’ with the details. – Rotten Apple
Haha…. there could be many things but at the core would be a brilliant, intellectually stimulating man. You know, a man who has ‘actualized’ himself, and has the confidence of one who has figured everything out.

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11…aki sue tell me you are just like i have always pictures you in my head!! you know, in my head you are this young, hot sexy and sexually talented girl who has great flowing hips, great kissable lips, and great titties. you even wear pencil jeans to show your full figure in my head. you smell nice, have this sweet smelling favorable perfume, and have a test in the fine things in life. you are tough on the outside, though on the inside, you are just but a sweet innocent katoto, trying to live this god forsaken life, just the best you can. in my mind i love you, and i love your blog. tell me, i’m i anywhere near? please dont be a dude!!!! please!! – Jambo

Huh! This made me laugh. Mmmm I am not all that or maybe I am. You only have to wait until you meet me. As of smelling nice,well sometimes I smell of sex and sweat. I wouldn’t say I am very soft inside.You can’t do a year on the Street and still remain soft. And no, I am not a dude.

12. If you don’t mind me asking, i have always wondered do you set your new year resolutions; like say, this year, 2011, i will strive to satisfy every client i get, and blah blah…..blah…… you know how it goes……… – Jambo
    I don’t make new year resolutions. I prefer to set much more shorter goals, monthly and weekly. My work has so many unpredictables and I find myself having to shift my goals now and then. As much as my clients are tied to my goals,I prefer setting goals on basis of what I want and not what clients want. Of late my goals have had something to do with improving my skills in writing and computers.

13.What discipline did you study in university sue? you know in my fantasies, you studied Bachelor of Sex Studies. But in reality, what did you study?
I studied a Bachelor of Arts Economics, Sociology, but I also did some Mathematics somewhere.

14.Are you like those people who always know what their goals are, or do you grab life by the moments it gives you?
I know what my goals are, but yes there are many times I grab life ” by the moments it gives me”. And those moments are many.

15. Do you have any siblings sue? like a younger brother or sister you are putting through college?
    I have a brother and sister .They are already past college and now both have relatively good jobs. If anything they would be the ones to support me.
16. Is there anything sexual (secret sexual fantasy) you’ve always wanted to do, but you’ve never done it so far? or have you exhausted all?
    Yes, I have some fantasies . There is still quite much I have not done.It will take me quite some time before I can say I have exhausted all. I am not sure there is anyone who has.
17. Have you ever had any threesome? not because clients wanted, but because you were just curious? from your heart?
    Yes, when in college.
18. Thanx for your brand, sue, you serve me with a fantasy i never knew i could have. one time in bed, a woman was like ” phew!! what was that!! you must be on drugs!” what she never knew was i was imagining she was you the entire time. Please just be like in my fantasies sue!!!! please!!! don’t be a dude.
    Huh… well huh….well I might never be exactly like your fantasises. Fantasises are sometimes too ideal. I am female.
19. Hey Sue, i been reading your postings, and they are quite intriguing. They interrogate issues and fears around sexuality and are a critical reflection to engage within a feminist discourse. Apart from creating an online brand you should consider publishing. – Mesh
    Thanks. Publishing is something I will consider once I feel I have enough courage, arrogance, language and technical skills to layout my life and thoughts in a book.

20.Sue, there are perceptions that women from certain communities are better sex performers than others. Are these perceptions based on any truth? – Kembu
Huh. I think men would answer that question better. But I know culture and socialization play a big role in sex. How open or closed one’s mind is also a big influence on the performance.

21.Props on the mobile web page,great work.I’ve never read of you talking of clients who were interested in anal;if they are there,how do you handle em? – B
Thanks. I first wrote about anal, in Episode 3 or so – “Anything at the right price”. But somethings have changed since then as I have mentioned above. But anal is something I will do because I want, and not because the client wants. I should have some little bodily treasure of my own.

22.I’d appreciate if yu didn’t publish this… I’m one who runs my mouth, lengthily in your blog. I assume you have come across group sex, orgies or sex parties arranged in town. Would you introduce me to them… It’s always been a fantasy. – Johny
Hey Johny… I read your comments, and thanks. Its true I have been to sex parties. I have never taken much interest in how they are planned. However I could ask a client or two. But then Johny these are things you do for yourself. Just look hard enough on Facebook.

23.Second, I download alot of books. It’s how I got to read ‘The intimate life of a London call girl’ Belle de Jour, I have it on soft copy if you want it. However, I’ve tried searching for her sequel which is rumored to be even better ‘Further Adventures of a London Call girl’ If you got a copy from any of your suitors coming from oversees… would you let me read it? That n’ ‘The seductive art of Japanese bondage’ by Midori – Johny
Yes , I would let you read it. But at the moment I don’t have a copy. I am planning to acquire quite a number of books by mid October,I will try use all my contacts to get the book you so highly need.

24.Well, from the above you must have realized that I’m a self serving bastard 😉 Please allow my indulgence… I feel like you are my naughtier sister – Johny.
Silly. I am not.

25. Please find a way around the .CC thingy. And find advertisers too if u get time… – davy
    Thanks for the concern.I have registered a new domain www.nairobinights.info . The old address www.nairobinights.co.cc is now redirecting to the new one. Well, I will soon have some advertisers and maybe some Google Adsense, but will see. Thanks.

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26.I am huge fan of yours, your writing is great! All my wazungu friends here in New Hampshire and Botswana are loving your blog.Anyways have you thought about writing a book-or maybe holding a session for women on how to have sex.
I am being serious by the way..women need this….it’s unfair that of all things we are taught no one teaches you how to have sex…assuming that it something we all naturally acquire..Well according to me nope! we all could use a tip or two.
I believe it’s a nurture thing.Please please Sue reply.Some tips would be highly appreciated as well.Thank you and keep up the good writing! -Kui

Thanks Kui. Now now a book on the art of sex? Well that is an idea I have never thought of . Maybe its something I should explore. I wouldn’t say I have all or the best knowledge on the matter, but I would just use my anecdotal experience to write it. Someone once proposed to me the idea of webinar on the same,but I was slow in taking it up. Thanks for the suggestion, I will think about it. Perhaps after all this is what the ‘brand building’ is all about.

27.From your experience, what can you advise a man on(i) Seducing a woman, (ii) Satisfying a woman sexually?- Makii
I would hesitate before advising on seducing a woman because I can’t remember the last time I was seduced proper. Honestly once in a while I have that craving to be seduced… Anyway I have my thoughts on the same and will put them in writing on the blog. I could say a thing or two about satisfying a woman sexually. But for me the basics are understanding the body of a woman, and knowing that each and every woman is unique. But who am I to talk about satisfying a woman , when I mostly push my feelings aside and concentrate on satisfying the man? I would consider myself more an authority in satisfying a man rather than a woman.
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28.Is there a chance of me getting with you..im willing to pay 20,000 ksh Cash even before we start..im in the States and returning sometime in a few month. is there a way we can meet or do i give u my email & inbox the details. thx i have never been attracted to any1 on the internet b4 – TG
Ksh. 20,000 upfront? That is quite some amount by any standards. You know what they say when the deal is too good. Drop me an email when you are around.

29.Did u get to malindi?id like to read about what happened with the italians – finje
Unfortunately things here and there, and I didn’t manage to go to Malindi, but I plan to go to the coast soon.

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30.why do you say men are pigs in your facebook profile? were you in love before the streets? – Samz
Its slightly on a lighter note.Have you read the short story Rain by W. Somerset Maughaum .The behavior of the men in the story made me agree with the author men are pigs. Anyway its an old saying touching on the morals and character of men. Think about it.
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31.Sue i want that free ebook. N then where can i get ur good services n how much u charge. Bt u seem to be eloquent how comes ur prostitute suffern n cold to get mistreatment. Last pliz write about the experience u have on size n libido strengh of those men u slp with. Many women complain of their husys tuthings, what of u?? – Penda lungula
I already sent you the free ebook.If you have not received it drop me an email. The charges are not standard, and if we ever meet I will give you my price. Yes I will write about size someday soon. Its interesting what women say and what men think of themselves. Mine being work I can’t complain. Like I once said for me a man is as big as the size of his wallet.

32.Are you FAKE? I asked two questions recently and have not seen an answer. Or are you not sure of an answer? – Muigua
Wow. Ok. Regrets for the delayed response. Things here and there. Bet I have answered all your questions, though I am not sure which particular ones they were.

33. What does your family think you do?? Do you flinch when your mom asks you how work is? – Chaa
    My family thinks very positive of me. They know I am a consultant of sorts. Mum passed away, but yes I used to flinch every time she asked about my job. I felt she knew I was lying.

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34… wen r u bringing ur talent to coasto? -Mclovin
Soon Mclovin. Soon

35…Sue dnt you think some guys may pick u up drunk u and screw u both holes? – Doc
There is always a risk for that.But I have the sense which tells me when things are about to go wrong.I also make sure to take necessary precautions from not drinking too much when I am working, to being alert when I am with all my clients. But yes its always a possibility it can happen.

36. ..how big was the longest penis u have ever encountered and was it painful ? – warlus .
    I don’t measure them, but there have been some rather lengthy ones. I wouldn’t say painful but rather uncomfortable. A lot depends on how the man does it.

37…Hey, am in my early 20’s, n i regularly get paid for sex, tho i dont feel like am a prostitute per se..so, what makes one woman b labelled a prostitute n another just a girl with financial needs? – MissBiatch
Well a prostitute has come out in the open,without any pretence and declared what she wants,and will go the extra mile of pursuing it or something of the sorts…The line is very thin and there are lots of double standards about this… Actually I may not be very sure why you are not labeled a prostitute, but I bet deep inside you know you are one.

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38. Where can find a good Brothel that is abit pocket friendly – tboy
    I am not sure how much is pocket friendly to you, but check one of the newspapers, they have lots of ads by downtown brothels.

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39… you know what sue i really admire you strength in a way i can relate to your story up until recently i worked in a bar so that could get some extra cash to supplement my tuition at the university the money was good but what i couldn’t stand was the audacity of the men apparently as i came to learn you and i are no different at what we do to earn a living at the end of every shift i would end up feeling like i had just pimped myself that broke me all am wondering how do you keep yourself motivated to keep doing what you are doing? other than that i wish you all the best in your endeavours in this world of double standards i say more power to you. -kay
Thanks kay. Interesting you felt like you have pimped yourself just by working in a bar. Bet because you had to smile to all the men, and occasionally let them touch you. I would say its all in the psychological leap. I have jumped some psychologically stage, and accepted my work and who I am. Bet that keeps me motivated to some extent,not to mention initially there was so much thrill in my work, before the money motive started overtaking the thrill. Thanks a lot for your wishes.

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40…wats up wid the erratic blogposts sometymz u r out for 2 or 3 wks, could you please try to make more frequent if not abit regular, say once a week maybe – knd
Yeah I know I know I have been very irregular. The last tow months have been a little intense on my end.I will try post at least twice weekly.

41… hi where can i find a cheap sex toy shop? -*
Locally I don’t know of any real cheap sex toy shop.Perhaps due to the ‘illegality’ and the hustle of sneaking them in, the toys are priced a bit on the higher side.

42. Sue,do you have a boyfriend?if yes does he know what you do for a living and do you use protection with him?- Ust.Kassim
    No,I don’t have a boyfriend and don’t plan to get one.
43. ..any advice on how to make a girl squirt? – anaa one
    There is no rule of the thumb.Keep exploring.
44. Do u take sex has something speccial – morio
    To some extent depending on who I am having sex with.
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45. ,,hey sue, where do you live ?(what part of Nairobi) – mis
    I live in Pangani

48..Now since You answer our inquires do You have some of Your own that You would like to throw to Your diverse readership? – Ed
Yes I have questions too. I am looking for a way to ask them and get answers.

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49. Do You agree sex is sacrilege? That it holds a deeper meaning than We care to find out? If so are You ready to face the consequences assuming You handled it the wrong way? – Ed
    Like I have mentioned above I believe sex is sacrilege depending on who you are having it with. And that for me depends on an individual rather than a generalization based on a set of rules, religious, social or otherwise. That said I don’t feel like I have handled sex the wrong way, at least to a very large extent.
50. A chess enthusiast in the world’s oldest profession. Is it for enhancing your abilities for the mind games with your clients? And as age catches up what will the options be especially if you succeed in building your brand? The brand building is quite puzzling given the the two options I see are “self employment” i.e. the streets or “employee” which tends to be “brothels” and places owned by “Madams”. What is your direction with the branding that you are working on? – Peter
    I play chess for pleasure and to exercise the mind. But its long since I played a good game and I am a little rusted now. As for the brand building I have to admit I am a little foggy about that. I am rethinking the whole brand building, and exploring my future options. I have several ideas but nothing is clear at the moment.

51.How do i shake off masterbation? – Humane
I don’t know. You may never shake it off, and why should you? Many of my clients confess to doing it, some in their fifties.

52. I have a problem……….am 22 years old now currently in campus but av never reached a climax in sex. Its some sort of premature ejaculation. I have lost three girlfrends now due to the problem. can you help? – Mint
    Well well I am not sure I can be of help. But man relax while having sex. Take it easy.

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53. What does your monthly doctor check up entail? – Doty
    It mainly involves checking for any infections and a somewhat ‘clean up’ of my sex system. The gynaecologist makes to remind me of the risks I am exposing myself too, and then giving me tips.. At times it feels like a visit to the psychiatrist.

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54. In Germany they introduced tax meters for prostitutes. http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/08/31/us-germany-prostitutes-idUSTRE77T36P20110831 that’s a link to the article. If prostitution is legalized in Kenya, do you think this sort of system would fly? – David
    Interesting. I think such a system will be so limiting. An annual licensce f pegged on all possible tax charges or me is the best way to go.

55… if i said i want to make the cover page for your book would you turn it down? would it be possible to be a client – Sweet
I would agree if anybody offered to make for me the cover. Its always possible to be my client.

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56. Hi Sue Great blog! Thanks and keep up the good work.You dont want your “workmates” to know who you really are. But: By facebook they easily find out … if your pic there is real.You dont want to stay anonymous anymore? Or is it a mistake to show your picture on facebook?Hope to meet you once in Nairobi. – Hans
    No Hans I have no real photo of mine on my facebook profile. I still want to remain anonymous so I wouldn’t expose myself with a photo. Especially now that I suspect my sister reads this blog. Drop me an email when in Naiobi and we wills ee.

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57. How are u sue,do you intend one day to settle down,get married,en maybe have kids of your own? – Gidi
    I don’t intend to settle or get married, but I plan to have a kid of my own.

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58. Plz tell me which z the most xpensive hotel u’hv ever slept? – Gidi
    I have been to the Nairobi Safari Club and Fairview.Most men though prefer cottage hotels in the city’s oustkirts. Recently a girl here was taken to The Tribe, and she cant yapping about how wonderful the place is. I hope to get a chance to go there.

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59. Are there any commentors you look forward to their comments after you write a blog? List your top 3 – Dear Sue.
    Haha.I read all the comments whenever I can. I appreciate all of them, positive, negative, abusive or praisworthy. I love them all. Answers – 10th August 2011

( Please note questions appear as they were asked. I have not made any spelling or grammatical corrections. If you wanted a private answer I will drop you an email soonest possible. Thanks)

1. What makes you to feel low to the extend of retreating to quiet places when you know u are bad in the eyes of the society?- ngash

It’s more of monotony, fatigue and exhaustion than feeling bad in the eyes of society. I bet it’s also character. I just want to be away from the hustle for some time. And it only happens occasionally.

2. If you found out u were HIV+ would u quit practising?
   No, I would not. There is always a chance of infecting someone, a moment of carelessness or something. I would just move on with my life positively but pick a different career.
3. what exact level of education did you attain? – ngash

University.

4. youre a very clever gal sue,i know also at school judgin by your writin u were among the top students.i kindly ask wot made u love the streets my dear? – Aleks
   Well I think I have answered this question previously. I am not sure why I loved the street. I just feel a special connection with my kind of work.
5. Dear Sue, Why not write about what makes a man a good client? – David

Haha. On a light note I would say it’s a man who pays well and only interested in sexual climax and not the process that leads to it. Anyway there are several other factors I could pin point out, and plan to do some anecdotal post about it.

6. 1000 men hav done u? I think ur P is buggy ( no tight ). Aint it? – Akuku

It is not. I know how to keep it in shape.

7. U were born in maralal? did u go 2 school there? – Nunu

I was born in Maralal where my family was living at the time. However I didn’t go to school there.

8. have you ever bumped into any of your clients outside the ”workplace” confines e.g on the street, with his family, in the supermarket etc. how did they react? how did you feel? -rhino

Well I surely have. The first time was on the Street and the unwritten rule is that the two of you should ignore each other unless otherwise. So we just looked at each, smiled a little and moved on. No stopping to shake hands or anything. Men too don’t, I bet, don’t want to talk to prostitutes in broad daylight on the Streets. Once in a while I see a man I have slept with there is nothing to do, there is nothing to feel, I just let it pass. I have never met anyone with a family, but if I did I would focus more on the woman than the man.

9. Which book are you reading now? – Emma The Great Pursuit – By Tom Sharpe
10. Do you ever think of having a family, a hausband n kids? -victor

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Do you see yourself getting married one day?.and will you stop being sampled after marrying?.

I don’t think of having a family or husband. I don’t think I would be able to commit, and I feel too restless to settle. But kids yes. I will definitely get a kid.

11. What’s the meaning of life according to you? What are we all doing here? – Rameses II

Meaning of life? I actually have no clue its just too complex for me. I bet we are just meant to live. As for what we are doing here I have so many foggy ideas. But I think there we all have a purpose in this earth. I think I know mine, and if I am wrong the gods will show it to me.

12. Since you started blogging have you hadc clents who have approached you on facebook twitter and on e-mail? – Lithium

Yes many. And I have serviced a few.

13. Wanted to know if you engage in oral sex with your clients? – wazza

Yes, I do.

14.Sue, you say you have slept with more than 1000 men, have you met a man who is too ‘big’ for you? .I know you dont measure them up, but how ‘big’ is the ‘biggest’ man you have ever slept with?. Is there a man too ‘big’ for a woman? – kembu

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does dick size really matter because there is so much hype nowadays about flaunting big dicks so much that some men opt to go for enhancements.what is your opinion given the fact that you have seen all kinds in your profession? – Mckenzie
Well well there are big but don’t want to do a comparison because I was okay with it. I don’t think there is a man too big for me at least. I have received so many questions about size, so I will do an anecdotal article about it.

15.Do you know that google has blocked the address of your site (and all sites ending with .co.cc) from all of its searches? If your normal readers have not either bookmarked the site ama memorized the url, they cannot find you!
Thank you for this. I was notified by some readers about this, though I almost missed it. I am presently looking for a way round this. I will have something by the end of the week.

16. If I want your services how and where exactly along Koinange do I find you? How do i also distinguish you from the rest? – Mjanjee
    I move around, but I am mostly on the upper side. I don’t think you will distinguish me from the rest especially when I decide to be loud and use obscene language.

17.What relationship do you have with your male clients.Do you love or like them. And do you have female clients. Which clients is are well satisfied by you-male or female by percentage rating – Big Sue

Most of the times I have no feelings. Sometimes I like them. A few times I have loved. But I try not to hate my clients. Hate consumes and I don’t want to eat me up. As for female clients I have had two. I think they are all satisfied, but looking at the number of male versus female I cant make a good rating as of now. Then again the female clients are not exactly after the kind of satisfaction the male clients are.

18.Are you available for an evening of platonic companionship? – Tony
Yes, sometimes I am available.

19. since you are a swindler what assurance do i get that you ‘ll deliver the 100/= book?

Swindler? I am not that exactly. Anyway if I don’t deliver I will feel nasty and guilty about it. Also it will be bad for my ‘brand’ and reputation. That said I am almost getting someone to sponsor the cost of the book so that I can have it distributed free. I will soon post an update about that.

20.Sue have you ever encountered a politician? have you ever had a man who wanted to or who did ‘lick” yu down there? have u met a client whose main concern was to make you cum?

No, I haven’t encountered a politician, but I have slept with a rather well known media personality. Yes there are men who want me to come, and I think genuinely so. I have been licked. Many men lick prostitutes, some not directly but using a piece of cloth or handkerchief as ‘protection’.

21.just wondering do you have any female clients? – Agnes

Yes, I have had two or so.

22.Hi Sue,do you really go to visit yo parents in ocha as in holidays?wat if they realize wat u’v been doing on the street of Nairobi?

Yes, I go visit them. I don’t want to imagine what would happen if they found out. I think mum would be depressed. But I believe I have covered my tracks very well so far.

23.Do you tell yo clients your name?n if they choose you of all galz in the street,will you care where he is taking you,mayb to his maternal home for the service

No, I don’t tell my clients my real name. I don’t want to expose myself so much. But some hotels insist on depositing my ID, and from there a client may scan my name.

I never know where a man is taking me until I am actually there. I have been taken to a maternal home, and it is not the best of feeling. But unlike some girls I have never been caught by any wife.

24. when was the last tym u had real fun? – ichigo

Real fun? This last Saturday I enjoyed myself so much at a party hosted by one of my former classmates. And none of the people there had any clue as to how I earn my living.

25.did any of ur clients ever give u multiple orgasms,n if any what really led u into it or were u juz horny? – Rixo

No multiple orgasms, but I have an orgasm several times. Well it just happened, but I liked the men.

26.Have you ever encountered a man who on seeing his thingy you suddenly thought….’well i think this is the smallest I’ve ever seen’? What did it resemble and what was your sensation? – Sprinter with ego issues

Of course the size matters, but if I concentrated on those I would lose focus. No sensation. Often the size is inversely proportional to the amount a man pays.

27. I would like to know, has your best (emotional as well as physical) sexual experience ever been with a client or with someone you have been romantically involved with? – Curious in US
    Unfortunately or fortunately it has been with a client. That said I have to add that I have had few romantic relationships.
28. If you do eventually fall in love and settle down, will it be important to you that your man is spectacular in bed? I ask because if I ever was to marry an ex-prostitute, I might worry that I wasn’t good enough or wild enough in bed. – Curious in US
    I don’t think I will ever settle down, but it happened I would not demand the man be spectacular in bed. Few men are.

27.have u got any friends? whats your saturday night like if your not working? one last one, what do you charge for private clients (not from the street)? – bb
Yes I have friends, but I like being on my own. If not working I will go have a drink at the local or better still remain in the house reading or watching a sitcom. There are no private clients, and I fix the price on seeing a man.

28.Would you opt to leave the street given the chance? Do u go to church. Come to church @ KPCU blding and you will perceive life differently in a short time
I am not sure about leaving. I go to church once in a while. I will try passing there one day.

29. Sue this may sound personal but i got to ask. At time you may stand infront of a mirror and look at yourself deeply and instead of of seing the outer appearance you start seing the inner you. What do you see? – Simpson
    Wow. Inner me? A hardworking Kenyan. Anyway I see a lady trying to find real happiness.
30. Hi Sue. have u ever considered acting in the adult entertainment industry? Is this something that may interest you as something more stable, safer, a more lucrative out for someone like urself who is building a brand? – Mclovin

No I have never considered acting porn. I want to maintain my privacy and also I don’t think I could live with it. I don’t have the porn guts despite the lure of money and security. Not to mention the quality of local porn is not one of the best.

31. Have you encountered men who hurt during the game because they are too big down there? I once slept with an Ethiopian dude and I felt like he was splitting my cha cha!!! – Sasha
    Haha. Yes there are huge men, really huge. But then I have a way of accommodating them without feeling hurt.
32. If u reveal urself and we find out u are a guy privy to this kind of information,I’ll be sure to punch if i ever get the chance.Please be a young girl below 30 just like in my head.

Haha. I am just like in your head.

33. Sue, after building brand online. How do you handle men interested in ur services? Or is this just some form of hobby? Only interested in clients on the street? – Mkenya Halisi
    Once in a while I sleep with a man I have met online. But it didn’t turn to be as easy and fun as I imagined. It’s something I will write about soon. There is so much familiarity with the men I have met online.
34. If a client has the money but does not have a car would u give him a chance? – unique
    Yes, I would. I have done it before.
35. Do you ever enjoy a fuck,without pay that is n which stylo?
    Ha. No, at the moment.
36. So basically you are a PORN STAR? is there any difference? – TyreseG

Mmmmm… There is a difference, I am not sure which one but then I am not a star. Only my clients know me and not the whole of the internet citizens.

37. How does it feel like to be a problem? Not You of course but Your stock in trade.

It feels very problematic.

38. Would u mind if I bought you coffee or tea, nt for any lewd reason no…. just because I suppose… uhm I dnt knw.. I just want to.
    No worries, its okay at the right time.

39.Thr ws a blog of t same nature bt t gal started in uni after being introduced by her friend. Is this the same blog?- Sp
I am not sure of that other blog, but the story sounds different. It’s not this one.

40.Do you ever watch porn? and wld u like to be part of the crew to shoot one? – barney

I used to watch porn but not anymore. I lost the excitement. So you are acting porn? No, I don’t think I will do that.

41. Sue, I find myself intrigued by your fluency and the fact that you work the streets at night further intrigues me. My question though is whether you have a college education or this is just a God given talent. Forgive me if I sound rude but it’s just curiosity on my part. -Dablem
    I have a good education but nothing to do with writing. The blog is my major work of writing, and I learn on the job. I read a lot and so I know I have a long long way to go before becoming a really good writer.

Answers – 18th July, 2011

( Please note questions appear as they were asked. I have not made any spelling or grammatical corrections. If you wanted a private answer I will drop you an email soonest possible. Thanks)

1.Sue, I would want to know if you’ve had an experience with extreme sex fetishes for example, has a client come up to you for golden showers (pee fetish) or brown showers (scat/poop fetish)? Share your experience, or if you haven’t but have a friend who did? If not either, share your opinion

Yes, I have experienced extreme fetishes. Golden showers are so common nowadays that I don’t consider them ‘fetish’showers are so common nowadays that I don’t consider them ‘fetish’. There is another emerging trend among men in their late twenties and who have good jobs. Let me see how it goes and hope to write about it someday. The thing with fetishes is that they are on the face reminders of my position in society.

2.Sue is it true that all that you write about are true experiences just like an autobiography – Gentie

Yes these are my true experiences. But if I was to write a full autobiography then I will have to go into more details, more of my background, motivations etc. If I feel like it, I will write it some day.

3.From your experience in the street have you come across ladies who have experiences of bestiality & whats their reaction?- Sif

There are many ladies who have experienced bestiality. The reaction is different, but few talk of it as if it’s the thing they would have wanted. What I know, almost as a fact, is that given a choice many girls would like to have sex normally, get paid and go home. But the money temptation is so great. It hurts most when a man does not compensate accordingly. Of course there are men who compensate so well and some girls love it. I don’t.

4. Have you ever thought of exercise as an option of recharging? And just like any other job it seems like it has become a life of routine and hence monotony. Have you thought of something that you enjoy doing other than testing things that you end up regretting about? – Peter

Wow! Exercise? I have never thought of it as a way of recharging. I do some awkward in my house, and I love walking long distances. It’s true even my life has periods of monotony too. I read lots, which is one of the things I enjoy doing. Lately I have been learning how to play chess, and hope it will be rejuvenating me.

5.How would you react if someone you cared about say a sister or a close friend informed you that they want to join the trade? What advise would you give?

I would be indifferent and I wouldn’t give any advice. This is as long as the person is 21 years and above and of a good education. The best I can do is giving tips when she is already in the trade. I don’t want to play any role in getting anyone to join prostitution.

6.Have you ever had a client who asked for anal? Do you do Blowjobs? If yes, with or without condoms? Do you do bondage? – Kenyadating

Yes, I have had several clients ask for anal. I have written about one of them, I think in episode 2. Blowjobs are mostly part of the package, preferably with condoms.

7. You Catholic? Do you practice it or just revert to it when in need? – jegeni

I am not Catholic. I can’t say I belong to a particular denomination. I was in a catholic boarding primary school, my parents are Anglicans and I have some preferences. I mix a little of each. But I say the Mea Culpa, Hail Mary and the Guardian Angel prayer.

8.Who’s the youngest client you have ever serviced? – mzungu

Well, I cant exactly tell the ages of all my clients. But I would say 19 at the Sabina Joy.

9.Approximately how many jamas have you slept with? -kama

I could put it at slightly over a thousand. At the SJ I could sleep with up to11 men in a day. Its not a figure I would say I am proud of.

10.Do you have any project which may target young girls and sort of keep them off the streets? Also how can one get you if for instance I want you? Just a querry. Thanks.

No, I don’t have such a project. I can’t run such. I have no right to. Drop me an email.

11.Why r u on the street – ryuopl

Actually I am not sure.

12.hae sue about that man u and pendo stole from did he fuck u?or wat happened?

No, he ‘blacked out ‘ before he could sample me.

13.If you gave someone the clap, can they sue you for malpractice ?. S.Z

Funny. Sue? No way. We would end up in prison together. That said I can guarantee you will never get a STD from me.

14.So,are you not afraid of diseases,dont they get you sometime?Dont the men do bad things to you sometimes

Certainly I am afraid of diseases. I go for a check up every month, and so far so good. Yes men do really bad things at times.

15. Have u ever whipped a jamaa? I lyke being whipped by ladies it is my fantasy do u know any girl who does this or if u can do it how much would u charge?

No, I haven’t. I would love to. But I wonder whether I would be able to stop if I started.

16.I have read your blogs and a fictional character at best

Well, like I said before the nature of truth is that you cant hide it for long. Wait and see.

17.Sue,where in Kenya were you born? – kembu

I was born in Maralal.

18.How often do you get clients who require a blowjob and do you give them? – mwalimu

Almost everyday I am on the street.

19.Does your “work mates” know that you have a blog? Do they read it and how has the relationship between you and them been like afterwards? – Tomaso

Some definitely know the blog exists. But they don’t know I am the one who writes it. I would not want them to know. There are a lot of backstabbing and underhand politics here, just the same way there is a sense of sisterhood. Then again I say a lot. I am not sure how they would react.

20.If it is indeed true that you want to build a brand,why do you steal from your clients? Or is it part of brand “recognition?”

No, its not part of brand recognition. Maybe its being me or knowing how shallow this sounds I say “shit just happens.”